Computer & Phone
Safety Tips
Use a safer computer. It might be safer to use a public computer, rather than your home computer. Computers are available at many places, including public libraries, Community Technology Centers, or a trusted friend's house. If you are in danger, please try to use a safer computer to which someone abusive does not have direct access, or even remote (hacking) access.
If you suspect your activities are being monitored, they probably are. Abusive people are often controlling and want to know your every move. Remember that anyone can monitor someone's computer activities.
There are hundreds of ways that computers record everything you do on the computer and on the Internet. Computers can provide a lot of information about what you look at on the Internet, the e-mails you send, and other online activities. It’s not possible to delete or clear all “footprints” on your computer.
If you think you may be monitored on your home computer, use "safe Internet surfing” methods. Example: If you’re researching an escape plan, and are planning to flee to California, don't look at classified ads for jobs and apartments, bus tickets, etc. for California on any computer an abuser has physical or remote access .
Email. Email is not a safe or confidential way to talk to someone about the danger or abuse in your life. Please call your local domestic violence program hotline instead.
Phone. Traditional "corded" phones are more private than cellular phones or cordless phones.
